Hon. Janine Barbera-Dalli Esq.
Retired Judge and Mediator

Judge Barbera-Dalli is a retired Judge and Matrimonial Practitioner for over 40 years. Judge Barbera-Dalli is a certified Court Mediator and has been successfully navigating clients through the mediation process for more than ten years.
Avoid the high cost of litigation along with the interference of the judicial system by engaging with a knowledgeable professional who can guide you through the difficult divorce process in a calm and compassionate manner.
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Process
Step by Step
Our mediation process is designed to guide couples through each step, ensuring clarity and support as they navigate their divorce journey.
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Review
Emotional Guidance Offered
We offer emotional support throughout the mediation process, helping couples manage stress and maintain focus on their goals.
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Mediation
Conflict Resolution
Mediation provides a structured environment for couples to discuss their issues and reach amicable agreements without the need for court.
Benefits
Cost Effective
Affordable Divorce Solutions
Divorce mediation is a cost-effective alternative to traditional litigation, saving couples money while promoting cooperation and understanding.
Understanding Divorce Mediation
Benefits of Mediation
Divorce mediation offers a cost-effective and amicable solution for couples seeking to end their marriage without the stress of court battles. It promotes communication and helps both parties reach a mutually beneficial agreement, saving time and money.
Process Overview
The mediation process typically involves several sessions where a neutral mediator guides the couple through discussions about asset division, child custody, and other important matters. This collaborative approach fosters a more peaceful resolution.
Expert Guidance
Our experienced mediators are trained to handle sensitive issues with care and professionalism. They provide the necessary support to help couples navigate their emotions and make informed decisions during this challenging time.
Confidential Environment
Mediation sessions are private, ensuring that discussions remain confidential. This safe space allows couples to express their concerns openly, leading to more effective communication and resolution of disputes.
Divorce mediation is a valuable alternative to traditional litigation, allowing couples to maintain control over their decisions and outcomes. By working together with a mediator, both parties can focus on their future rather than getting caught up in adversarial proceedings. This approach not only reduces stress but also fosters a more amicable relationship post-divorce, which is especially important when children are involved. Mediation encourages cooperation and understanding, making it easier for couples to move forward positively.
The advantages of choosing mediation over litigation are numerous. Firstly, it is generally more cost-effective, as it eliminates the need for lengthy court battles and associated legal fees. Secondly, mediation is typically faster than going through the court system, allowing couples to reach agreements in a timely manner. Additionally, the process is less formal and more flexible, enabling couples to tailor solutions that best fit their unique circumstances. This personalized approach can lead to higher satisfaction with the outcomes, as both parties have a say in the final agreements.
Why Choose Mediation?
Choosing mediation can significantly reduce the emotional toll of divorce. Unlike litigation, which often pits spouses against each other, mediation promotes collaboration and understanding. This method allows couples to work together to find solutions that work for both parties, fostering a sense of partnership even in difficult times. Furthermore, mediation can help preserve relationships, which is particularly beneficial for parents who need to co-parent effectively after divorce. By focusing on communication and compromise, mediation paves the way for a healthier post-divorce relationship.
In conclusion, divorce mediation is an effective way to navigate the complexities of ending a marriage. It offers a supportive environment where couples can discuss their needs and concerns openly, leading to fair and equitable solutions. With the guidance of a skilled mediator, couples can avoid the pitfalls of litigation and emerge from the process with a sense of closure and readiness to embrace their new lives. Mediation not only saves time and money but also promotes a more positive transition for everyone involved.
Offices in Southhampton and Montauk
In person and Zoom sessions are available.